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The original was posted on /r/paranormal by /u/Low_Ad8204 on 2024-04-07 02:30:20.

Good evening everyone. I’d simply like to hear from some people that believe in, or have witnessed proof of anything paranormal. I’m not religious, I’ve never really had any sorts of beliefs on paranormal, or anything of the sort. I’ve always just had the idea that when we die, we’re in the ground or whatever, and that’s it.

That being said, my daughter’s father died a few days ago. I loved this man with every fiber in my being, my daughter was the definition of a daddy’s girl, and she changed life, she was the center of his world.

Idk if any of that matters, but who knows? Anyways, it’s been a long 4 days and I have googled a hundred different things relating to connecting with the dead in one way or another, because yes, I’m grieving.

My daughter is 3, and I don’t think she’s grasped what’s going on, she’s her same happy self, and we’ve read a bunch of age appropriate books about the subject, talked about daddy being dead, gone, no longer here. And she kind of says “oh daddy gone” really sad, and moves on to something else quickly.

Today, we were in his apartment where he died. I took my daughter to the park we all used to play at right after, and as I opened my car door to let her out, I swear I could smell his cologne, as is he was standing right next to me, it was so strong. And it has felt like he has been with us at some points, idk how to explain the feeling.

We went to another playground this evening, and shortly before we headed out, my daughter went screaming “Daddy ghost, Daddy ghost!” And then started running as if she was chasing someone, and yelled “Daddy ghost go down slide!!” And then made me go down the slide with her.

I didn’t even know she knew the word ghost, or what it meant (she’s autistic, and has Just started developing some speech.)

Anyways, idk, I guess I jest want/need to know if he’s here, in some way, with us. If it’s even a possibility. Or could I just be grieving, and losing a grip on reality? 😓