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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/TheDarkRev on 2024-04-07 18:26:00.

Today I fucked up by clicking into the wrong conversation…

Literally happened today, my wife was cooking (hands dirty) and asked me to open a conversation on WhatsApp for her (in full transparency there is no secrets or thoughts of cheating, our phones are completely open not that we have ever checked eachother been married for over 10 years no signs of anything untoward)

I typed in the name and opened the conversation but it was the wrong person but very similar names and seen a message from a few months back talking about my wife’s best friend and how much he was in love with her Ect Ect… I was shocked, although I’m not especially close to her best friend I have always admired her, we got married around the same time, they have multiple kids and her husbands a genuinely nice guy who would do anything for them

How reading my wife’s reply to this random guy declaring his love for a married woman peaked my interest, and did something I never done before I snooped her BF WhatsApp and was completely shocked by what I came across, her BF telling her all about there affair where they had sex about keeping it secret from her husband about all sorts that have really shocked me… and on top of that really not happy with the replies my wife was sending back basically backing her up for the husband and seems like she is playing match making between the two of them (hence this random guys messages to my wife)

After that I left for work and since that (about 5 hours) I can’t think straight, my wife knows my views on cheating (as i have been on the receiving end of it) and this has raised major red flags for me and my view of her and my wife has completely changed and I’m at a loss of what to do

TL;DR opened the wrong conversation on my wife’s phone and uncovered an affair by my wife’s best friend and looks like my wife not only supports her in her intentions but actively helping her in doing so