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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/sertralineyy on 2023-06-26 12:56:55+00:00.

For context I am 17F. Call me petty all you want but I am furious. My mom and dad had an okay relationship but we literally never did anything together and it’s just sad. Not one vacation , family hangouts always ended with arguments… and my mom and dad barely did anything nice together. My mom would always tell me about her dreams of us as a family doing family activities and going travelling together, trying new things together but my dad never seemed interested because he thought it was “useless” and irrelevant. I swear he thought any source of entertainment was ridiculous. Unlike my mom , she was adventurous and wanted to try new things. Anyways later in her life my mom got cancer and passed when I was 14. A year later my dad got married to my now stepmom. She’s a kind person , a bit annyoing but I can go with it. Now here’s the problem… one year into their marriage and my dad is doing everything my mom ever wanted to do with him. This year we are going to a vacation and we went out on so many family trips. My dad always offers to go grocery shopping with my stepmom ( my mom went alone). My dad also always watches tv series my stepmom says are nice but when my mom would invite him to watch with us he called us ridiculous and said we are wasting are time. Now I am just mad my stepmom gets all my mother ever wanted. I am happy for her but it’s not fair to my mother. So now I am not going to join my dad on any family activity he does w my stepmom and my siblings because it’s just not fair.

My dad thinks I am being dramatic and told me to get over it and that I am missing out…

AITA?