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The original was posted on /r/transmedical by /u/Elch5036 on 2024-04-07 22:48:30.

I’ve specifically seen a very high demographic of alt girls between 13-19 trying to gain as many minority points as possible. Leaning into every single condition/minor disability/sexuality. They possibly can to try to see more interesting and I just don’t get it.

They always claim to have so many different disabilities and sexualities and genders and have such a disadvantage life when in reality, they’re just middle-class white women living in the suburbs . People actually have all those things wrong in their life normally have bigger things to worry about.

I’m one of the very few people who actually hit all the categories of being neurodivergent, physically, disabled, trans, although special little labels, that they like to slap in their bios… it’s not that interesting. They take some weird representation of how I actually live my life and then twist it to this weird fantasy that they try to enact IRL. not only is it spread with misinformation but it’s just completely off it’s uncanny… especially with the trans stuff. These people also live in America where they try to make excuses for every single thing in their life when there’s a pretty easy to find a solution for. It’s the most annoying thing in the world. And then the same people automatically assume that if you disagree with them, you’re in a lucky situation, you’re rich, and you’re basically a “straight white man” to them. It’s the weirdest fucking thing I cannot stress that enough.

I have an unsupported family. They would rip out my hair and physically touch me, and it made me extremely uncomfortable to make sure that was not binding. That is what I would consider unsafe environment to be trans, yet I still do everything I can to pass. Dressed like a male, act like one, still grow body hair, ect… it was to the point where I would get grounded if somebody would call me a boy or my chosen name but I still did it because that’s who I am. I’m not giving that up just because other people do not like it. No matter how dangerous it might be. Because I know if it don’t put myself in danger with them, I’m gonna be a danger of myself if I can’t transition. I understand legal/medical things blocking you from transitioning, but social things are no excuse. Especially when these people specifically do things to make themselves look female, and not feminine. There’s a difference between a feminine and a female looking man. These people don’t seem to understand that, and it pisses me off. Especially the ones who actually do have supportive families to take that for granted. I was suggested to start HRT when I was 11 years old. Almost 7 years later, I’m still not able to because of my parents. Because of the legal wall of me because I don’t have a parent to sign for consent.

They will never understand what we go through.