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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/therewillbeniccage on 2024-04-09 23:24:33.

Kia ora everyone

Yesterday I graduated my degree. I got to walk across the stage and receive my ticket.

I want to briefly offer my experience of further education in the hope that those who do not think they are up to it might see they can.

I grew up in a home that was physically, emotionally and mentally abusive. I’ve since come to learn sexual abuse was present in the home. I left school with nothing at 15. Not even ncea level one. I was encouraged by my Mum to study something I was interested in. At that time it was audio engineering. I did a uni entry course where I learnt how to write essays (I failed it once before I passed, it’s ok to fail). I passed the audio diploma. Later I did a certificate in mental health and went straight on to the social work degree. It took me 6 years to do a 4 year degree but got there eventually. All throughout my studies I was managing poor mental health, addiction and money problems.

If you are in a similar situation, there are paths to higher education. You may need to lean more on student support like I did but the pathway is there. I didn’t know anything about essays or academia but I learnt. There is support to help you learn these skills.