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The original was posted on /r/exmormon by /u/Bubbly-Occasion2628 on 2024-04-10 04:23:18.

I (23M) am honestly so ready to leave. If there was anything that watching general conference this weekend did for me is just reinforce the idea that I don’t want to be here. I was honestly let down with what the leaders chose to talk about, and it just shows where their priorities are. Nothing was said about the wars going on. Nothing about feeding the poor and helping the needy. No apologies for hiding their history, being dishonest in their finances, or mistreating marginalized groups. Nothing about personal improvement. Instead it was “keep your secret oaths, listen to your leaders, pay your tithing, and wear your sacred underwear”. Like really? These are the things that are on God’s mind right now? Sorry, I’m ranting a little bit

Anyways, I’m going to be talking to my TBM spouse (22F) about it in about 3 weeks. I just have to wait because she’s getting her degree in 2 weeks and I don’t want to add any more stress to her life. I’ve been going through my deconstruction for literally the past 2 YEARS, and I’m just finally ready to tell people. I can’t hide it anymore.

She’ll probably be upset, and honestly this might be the end of our marriage because her and her family are really devout, but I can’t do it anymore.

Wish me luck!