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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/UniversityPlane6077 on 2023-07-27 21:43:13.

My (M30) wife (F28) has become friends with a guy (M29) that she works with. They will sometimes go to lunch together at work and have both mutually decided to do something outside of work together. He has suggested that they go for drinks together one evening, which just doesn’t sit right with me. My wife and I have been together coming up to 11 years and she has never given me any reason not to trust her, but I can’t help but feel uneasy about this situation. For context, it would just be the two of them, no other coworkers, etc. AITA for having a problem with this?