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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Background-Diet-934 on 2023-06-27 02:03:25+00:00.
I f(36) am married to my husband m(38), he and i recently had a baby and have been trying to make our work schedules flexible for the babies needs. This is where his mother comes in, she offered to help out with the baby so that we would be able to work easier and not have to rush home daily, me and his mother haven’t always been the closest but I saw the opportunity and took it. It was about three weeks after she started babysitting that i added security cameras in my home only to find that his mother was stealing a lot of my expensive jewelry and gifts from my deceased mother, when I confronted her about it my husband told me that I’m overreacting and that its just jewelry, its not, I don’t have much from my mom and now most of it is gone. I flipped out at both of them, I was furious. My husband took down the security cameras and later at an event showed up with his mother wearing my mothers necklace, i didn’t want to cause a scene so i pulled her aside to kindly ask for it back but my husband freaked out at me causing a scene i didn’t want to happen. After that i just snapped i threw all his stuff outside and changed the locks the last thing i texted him was that he can move back in when i get ALL my stuff back and i get an apology from both him and his mother. A lot of people texted me saying that i was wrong for kicking him out but seriously AITA?