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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/AlternativeMean2454 on 2023-07-28 13:14:13.

(Names are fake and I’m very bad at grammar and spelling, sorry)

So, I’m a 15 year old girl who lives with my mother and stepfather, my sister (Sally) is 30 and has a son (Wally) who is now 20 months old.

My sister is also very tired from hanging out with her friends, so I’m the one who usually takes care of the little boy, I’m perfectly happy to help her when I can! But I also do all household chores and have school so it’s a lot….

Recently Wally started saying ‘mama’, but he only calls me mama, and will cry whenever Sally tries to take him from me.

Two days ago we had a fight over this, I said ‘I’m sorry Sally, but you’re never around or help with the baby, so it’s not my fault that Wally is so attached to me’, she got really mad and yelled at me that I was a Bitch and she wished that car crash ended me. (I was in a car accident, I survived but lost my arm, my mother refuses to buy me a prosthetic)

then she stormed off to her room. Later I got a call from our mother who was upset with me, she said I was being a brat and needed to apologize, my stepfather is on my side. But now everyone is arguing and I hate it! Should I just apologize?

AITA? Am I being a brat?