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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/ThrowRA-Scam200K on 2023-07-28 17:09:16.

I 49M will keep this as short as possible but basically my step daughter 25F wants to marry her boyfriend 25M which was fine and all, I had the money to pay for the wedding what could possibly go wrong? Her father 54M has never been in the picture her whole life, he was a deadbeat father; Never took care of his daughter, never paid child support according to my fiancée anyway.

My step daughter was never rude with me and always showed respect so I always showed respect for her and bought all her the necessities she needed, maybe too much, now looking back I’m an effing ATM, what was I thinking? Anyway since I’m paying for a 200k wedding, I just asked for my mother and her 2 step siblings to receive invitations since they are her siblings, my fiancée and daughter were like cool we will, now obviously this could be a mistake but invitations come around, my step daughter informed me that she didn’t want any children at her wedding, but that seemed odd to me because my fiancée sister children were invited so why wasn’t her own siblings invited, I ask her and she said it was just a mistake, probably a red flag but we move.

A few days later my daughter in laws come to my house and a question was asked by the in-law targeting my daughter asking who’s going to walk her down the aisle, my daughter announced it was her deadbeat effing clown of a father, my fiancée was in shock from her announcement and my daughter kept going on about how they been in touch and the fact that he’s her true father and at that point, I lost it, I announced that her real father can pay for the wedding (He can’t lol) since I’m a check for my step daughter, my step daughter started screaming at me and all the guests left the house, my fiancée wasn’t too happy stating that I humiliated her in front of her in-laws and the fact they spent a year planning, I stated that I wasted 200k on an ungrateful brat (May be asshole for this) and spewed insults towards her father (As you can tell, I have hatred towards that man) so am I the asshole?