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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Fearless-Detective61 on 2023-07-29 13:07:15.

I (26f) lied to my partner (27m) that I quit smoking. I have promised him that I will quit on our anniversary date and I did for a month.

Then I went to the store and bought a vape, hoping he wouldn’t notice. But yesterday when he was cleaning it accidentally slipped out of my bag. I know it’s bad but I tried to lie that it wasn’t mine but there was no point so I told him the truth.

He said that it’s my decision to do so but he is not sure if he can trust me because I was lying and I also tried to lie to him at the beginning.

I feel really bad but I also feel like he’s a bit overreacting. AITA?

tl;dr: I lied about quitting smoking