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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/whoknows2919 on 2023-07-29 22:34:15.

My husband and me seem to have different standards on hygiene and cleanliness. I might be overly worried about germs to him but whenever we go places I want us to wash our hands when we get back… he started making food today for himself and I asked him if he washed his hands as a question and he said what the fuck is wrong with you? And this led to a fight where I told him if he would just do it I wouldn’t feel a need to ask and he said I’m belittling him and then raised his voice and got mad. I told him not to talk to me like that… it’s like getting to me that at night he doesn’t always brush his teeth, never flosses,etc. so am I belittling and in the wrong?