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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/supermoron69 on 2023-06-27 16:46:25+00:00.

I’m (29M) recently single as of a year ago for pretty much the first time in my adult life and have been experimenting with sleeping around for the first time.

I just found out today that I’m positive for Chlamydia, likely from a partner I had a few weeks ago. We tried to use condoms but they ended up causing issues with maintaining an erection so ended up dropping it (dumb, I know).

I recently met a girl that I’m finally really into, like I really like this girl and see a future with her - and she likes me too. We literally had our first date last week and had sex, and I was likely positive during that encounter but didn’t find out until today. I got my routine test just on Sunday so the timing overlap was unfortunate.

Obviously I’m going to call and tell her tonight, as I care about her and it’s the right thing to do. Does anyone have experience with anything similar? Is there any chance this girl will still want to see me or am I completely screwed? Devastated to hear that I may have spread it to her and obviously personally am very worried this will be the end of seeing her.