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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Other-Energy-1505 on 2023-07-30 17:38:27.

My (m27) roommate(m29) and I have lived together for eight months. We paired up through mutual friends and we are mostly very compatible. Recently, we’ve started working out together as something fun and healthy to do together. So since I’m lifting more, my metabolism is going insane. I’m taking in like 4000 calories or more to feel satisfied.

Here’s why I might be TA. My roommate meal preps every Friday for his week (He’s a retail manager and his workweek is Sunday to Thursday). On Friday, we worked out in the morning and I had a steak and egg burrito + my usual smoothie. I went to work, but was stuck in meetings the whole day so I didn’t have time to eat until we met with friends for dinner. I had a salad and prawns to start + fajitas for the main. When we got back, we had sex (which isn’t relevant at all but does explain why else I would be so hungry) and then he went to sleep but I couldn’t sleep because I was starving. It’s the middle of the night. The only thing we have that’s quick are his meals. And I ate until I felt full.

The next day, he woke me up stressed about the meals, and I told him what I had done. All he could say was, what the fuck is wrong with me? He started freaking out and crying, and I offered to buy him lunch for the week. He didn’t accept that, called me a selfish AH and just left the house.

Is this really that big a deal?