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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/starwarsmonkeyz on 2023-07-31 15:54:47.

Long story short my boyfriend’s sister borrowed one of my favourite tops. I am fine with this because we usually share clothes all the time.

I am going away to my holiday home for a month and we are leaving in a few days and when i asked my bf if his sister could give me my top back he said that its not with them and that its lost and i wont have it before canada.

he then told me that i can just buy a new one because its “not that expensive” but the thing is im really tight on money right now and i am really upset and angry because its MY TOP.

he then said that its “not our fault” and that i shouldnt be putting the blame on them. and is mad that i am “overreacting” over a small deal. im autistic and my personal belongings are a big deal to me.

his sister wore my hoodie to a rave too and got gum on it that didnt come out and we had to throw away. that hoodie was £90.

i am beyond furious right now and i feel so so annoyed and i feel like i havent done anything wrong because at the end of the day it is MY belongings and its not fair!! I really wanted to wear them in canada and i feel so upset now.

my bf basically thinks im an AH and that im “overreacting” because its just a “small deal” but to me it isnt and as im autistic i get really emotional over smaller things like this.

i am beyond furious right now and am in need of help from you fellow redditors. AITA?