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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/throwAITA9898333 on 2023-07-31 18:10:46.

Original Title: AITA for kicking out my brother in law, his partner, and his surrogate Ukrainian son after they pasted a giant Ukrainian bumper sticker on my car, harassed me for money when they stayed over our house to go to Disney World?

My brother in law (call him Joe) and his husband decided to visit us with their 8 year old son. Now bit of background, they had their son via a surrogate in Ukraine. The only reason they went to Ukraine for was because it was the cheapest place to get a White surrogate mother.

My brother in law’s partner (call him Tom) is much older and is kind of a racist. He basically would say that surrogates from Latin America would end up producing sicklier babies, saying their wombs aren’t adept for birthing larger European skulls and the more he talked the ickier it got. That their diets and habits weren’t ideal. He said that if money wasn’t an option he would have a Swedish woman carry his child as they have Viking blood. The whole thing was really icky and I never liked this guy.

So they have the baby, everyone in the family is happy and for the longest time they never talked about the Ukranian surrogate, in fact it was a sore spot. Joe would constantly say if he could get pregnant he would have carried him himself.

But now, after the war happened they started telling everyone how their son is Ukrainian (son has no Ukrainian DNA just was in an Ukrainian womb). They spam everyone in the family with this war stuff. At my wedding Joe took the microphone and started crying and giving a speech about the war.

Back to current time: these guys wanted to go to Disney World and asked if they could crash at our place as we live in Orlando. My wife and I have just have a 2 bedroom apartment but since they are family we said sure. They were set to stay for a week.

All was good, however then they tried guilting me into paying for their vacation, saying that me helping pay for the vacation is like helping out refugees. I told them no, and they just kept hounding me for stuff, be like oh Timmy (fake name for son) really would like to go to Star Wars its his dream but the tickets are so expensive. I told them no but again kept hounding me, and if they got a no from me they would beg my wife.

I just put up up with it, until one day when I was going to work I realized that there was a giant bumper sticker on my car. And it said “F*** Russia” with an Ukrainian flag on it. I knew it was one of them that did it, I got so annoyed as I just got my new car. I told them that they need to find a hotel for the rest of the time here as they have overstayed their welcome. They started saying that they were just trying to do the right thing, and increase awareness. They start talking about how they are already in credit card debt, and I told them I don’t care. They now are telling people in my family that I am secretly a Putin apologist because of this.