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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/ConfidentEffective84 on 2023-07-31 21:46:49.

My boyfriend got very skinny the last few weeks. He lost at least 10 pounds I feel like. I saw him shirtless yesterday and was kinda shocked at how much weight and muscles he lost. I still think he’s beautiful but I’m worried about his health if it continues like that.

Yesterday I told him that I noticed how much weight he lost and that he should start eating more before he gets sick. I said it in not a serious tone at all tho, just chill. He got kinda offended tho and told me to “mind my own business”. He was very dismissive and kinda rolled his eyes at me which made me sad.

I apologized and told him I’m just worried about him and then he said “do you want me to call you a fattie and eat less? Yeah, don’t be annoying”

I was so shocked that he’d say something like that. I wasn’t trying to be mean at all. I’m still very sad about this and we haven’t talked much since then. And I don’t get why he even said this because I’m at a normal weight. I’m 5’5 and 150 pounds. But his comment made me very self conscious.

His overall behavior has been very dismissive for some time now and I don’t know why. But anyways, was I wrong for saying that? Should I apologize again?

IMPORTANT EDIT: I meant 10 kg not pounds. My apologies, English isn’t my first language and I thought that’s the same