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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/vibrotramp on 2023-08-01 14:46:12.

We have one bathroom in our house that joins directly to our bedroom. She goes in to do her business first thing this morning, then walks out leaving the door wide open. From the bed, (which is like 8 feet away from the bathroom door), I asked her, “did you poop?” She says yes. I say “can you shut the door, please?” She explodes. She tells me “you’re making me feel extremely insecure as soon as I walk out of the bathroom.” I tell her I think it’s gross to leave the bathroom door open after you take a shit, knowing that the door is INSIDE our bedroom. She says “it doesn’t even smell that bad”, I say, “I don’t care if it smells like roses, it’s the principle.”

She’s exhibited this troubling habit a few times recently. I know she just isn’t thinking about it in the moment, but I notice every time, and honestly, sometimes I do notice the smell.

AITA?

Edit: the bathroom has a working extractor fan. I prefer to leave the door closed with the fan running during and after doing my own business.