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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Warm-Software-8790 on 2023-08-01 17:06:38.

I (43f) have raised 3 children, all in their 20’s now. My oldest and youngest have left the nest. My middle (24f), her child (4yr), and child’s father (25m)live in my home. The space is not an issue. They each pay rent monthly. My issue is they are messy. I’m not talking normal toddler toy mess. I’m talking dirty dishes, not picking up after themselves, not pitching in on bills other than their small rent amount, of which goes right into the grocery fund to feed the 3 of them. I literally have to explode to get them to help clean. I got frustrated last week and paid someone to come help me clean my house! I am a college student and work full time while helping with my grandkids. I struggled to provide a decent life for my children. I’m not the parental type to kick them out the door at 18 and say figure it out. However, I seriously want to just pack up my things and leave!! Let them have the mortgage, utility bills and grocery bill. AITA for wanting to walk away?