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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/JoeyDoesntShare2 on 2023-08-02 03:07:50.

I (24M) live with my flatmate Tommy (25M). A few weeks ago Tommy asked if his girlfriend Bella (26F) could stay with us for two weeks. She’s moving apartments and has time between leases. I begrudgingly agreed on the condition that she won’t bother me for anything. I do not like Bella. Mainly because she constantly picks fights with Tommy over dumb shit. I also find her to be entitled, lacking empathy, and having “I’m the main character” energy. She’s entertaining but I think she’s unpleasant to be around overall.

So this morning was her first morning of “living” with us. I’m in the kitchen making my breakfast. Bella comes out, goes through our fridge, and pulls out my fruit and my greek yogurt. I notice and tell her that both of those are mine, she can eat from Tommy’s groceries which are all on the left side of the fridge. She tells me “but Tommy doesn’t have fruit!” I tell her there’s a grocery store across the street.

For some background, I plan out everything I eat each week gymbro style. Unless my gf wants to go out, I’ll eat every meal at home. I also hate wasting food. I go grocery shopping once a week and buy exactly what I know will be eaten in one week, no more, no less. Most weeks I cook for my gf and/or get her snacks and plan my groceries accordingly, but this week she’s out of town visiting family and I have no food to spare. I’m cutting right now and will fall asleep hungry and cranky if I miss a single snack. Thus why I’m unwilling to share.

Anyways, Bella said I’m stingy, selfish, and a bad host. I told her she isn’t my guest, I’m letting her stay with us as a favor to Tommy but I’d prefer if she wasn’t here. She told me that this is why I’m single (she doesn’t know I have a gf because she doesn’t bother asking about my life and I’m happy to not share), I told her I’d rather stay single than date someone like her and she’s lucky Tommy puts up with her. She went running to Tommy demanding he make me apologize. AITA?