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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Kinsey_rose on 2023-08-02 07:10:43.

As the title says, My wife wears revealing clothes whenever she is with my family, Whenever we go family outing, Dinners etc. And I dont mind much, but recently my mom asked me about my wifes dressing sense! And she has a point, When we were dating she used to wear such outfits only when we were going on dates or at beaches, But now she is wearing on almost daily basis.

For instance, Recently we went on a family function and my wife decided to wear IDK what its called but (Dress with long side slits, Undies were totally visible to everyone and she was OK with it), Mesh kinda dresses which showcase inner wear etc. You get my point right?

On a family trip with my mom, She decided to wear a micro bikini(Which made my mom very uncomfortable because it was actually skimpy, But she did not cared at all to atleast wrap a towel around when not in water)

And I lost shit when recently she decided to make my mom ‘Fashionable’ and took her to shopping and made my mom try and wear fashion sports bras/Skinny tight shorts and she convinced my mom to wear it with her on shopping, For her happiness my mom agreed(My mom is from religious background, Very submissive, She never showed that much skin in her life! She never said or did anything to my wife or me and could hurt my wife) later my mom told me all about it on phone, how embarrassed she felt.

I confronted my wife about it, and she said I am overreacting and that my mom also needs to open up.

Am I the asshole here to tell my wife this?

PS. Based on the comments that I am getting, It seems people can even justify that If my wife decided to go totally naked in public, Then also people will judge me for asking her to dress normally? Even If one day she forced my mom to wear one of her micro bikini, Then also It will be moms fault right?