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The original was posted on /r/inceltear by /u/Pounciecakes on 2024-08-15 05:40:12+00:00.

I’m sick of it.

I was meeting this girl. Being decent. Being nice. She is like “I wanna take things slowly”. Me, I am a gentleman and don’t push for the last dance.

Then one my friends tell me one night in a club (before we were getting to know each other) she met an acquaintance of ours and slept with him the first night. Didn’t date afterwards.

So I don’t understand why the f*ck I was being nice and paying for her dinners in our dates if then she does things like that.

There is no point in being nice and being a gentleman and having your instincts refrained if later they will just sleep with anyone they meet in the club.

Really. Women are really encouraging men to be pricks.

Take my advise and only look for ons. They will get hooked on you. Somebody else will be buying soft drinks for them and you will be sleeping/dating them any time you want.

I just learned the game and I’m going to play by its rules.

Edit:

1- no. I was not interested in a ONS, but I just realized she was in disguise. I don’t like that. I feel lied to.

2- Yes, giving sex to a man it’s a reward because all pleasure is a reward. By giving sex to some kind of people but not to another you are promoting one kind of behaviour.

3- being nice and treating for dinner is a code. Just like “come to my apartment to watch a movie” is also a code. There are some words and ideas that are taboo and they are pointed at, not stated. If one guy asks you out and treats you for dinner she wants something. If she comes to the dinner more beautiful than usual it’s also code. You know that. I know that. Anyhow, I can feel she was interested and she was understanding the code.

4- No. I don’t mind waiting. I don’t mind waiting a long time. I just want to wait as less as the person who has been made wait the least. Make me wait longer is disrespectful to me. Can you imagine I introduced several friends with benefits to my friends and family but it takes me years to introduce you? Well, same feeling here.