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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/LaFamigliaETutto on 2023-08-02 16:45:07.

I’m a 26 year old guy and my mom is 47. My father and her have been divorced for 6 years by now. They met in college and all. My father has his own life and we don’t talk much, but I live close to my mom (separately, though) and drop by a lot. Mom has been dating a 22 year old guy she met at the gym for about four months now.

Least to say, they have a pretty intense relationship, not shying away from PDA and such. They behave more like teens sometimes, constantly tagging each other on Instagram or always being on the phone (either talking or messaging) and they’ve been generally spending a lot of time with each other. We’ve had some argument about it, but last time they’ve overstepped it completely.

So, I had to go away on a work trip for a couple days and I asked my Mom to come by my place and take care of my plants, since they need daily watering. She says OK, no trouble. I was supposed to come back yesterday at night, but timeline changed up a bit and I arrived during the day. I picked up a gift for Mom and then wanted to surprise her with my sudden arrival.

I come back home I see some unknown coat in my hall. And I hear some noise coming from my own bedroom. I sense something fishy, I hear some guy’s voice. In retrospect, I should have ran out of there.

So, I opened my bedroom’s door and damn, there they were. So, in short and without being vulgar, my mom was standing naked on her knees, while the dude, just as naked, was sitting on my own bed. I completely froze up. There is also one physical detail, that is now forever burned into my brain and it makes things worse. A lot.

Mom got up immediately, she’s all flustered, dude is trying to put his pants on ASAP. I’ve started screaming and swearing, Mom says she didn’t know I was coming back so early, I said it doesn’t make things better. I said a lot of nasty words to them and practically pushed them out of the house. Mom has been calling and texting me, saying she’s sorry, that her BF just gave her a ride to my place and one thing led to another. But I’m just so over this.

TL;DR I walked in on my Mom doing her BF on my bed and now I’m not talking to her. I’ve also said a lot of nasty things.