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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Petite_Curious on 2023-08-03 18:01:09.

I (26F) have been friend with Celia (26F) for about 10 years now.

She got married with her husband Mike (27M) a year ago. Me and Mike get along well, he’s a nice dude and he seems to treat her well.

Yesterday evening Celia, Mike and I were all invited to a friend’s party to celebrate some good news. I don’t drink alcohol but Mike got quite drunk and Celia drank only a little.

I was wearing a short dress with heels and at some point Mike, completely drunk and laughing with other friends pulled my dress up and started commenting on my underwear.

I honestly just brushed it off because he was really drunk and doesn’t behave like that normally. I said “well let’s see how he’ll react when he gets sober” and laughed.

Celia wasn’t happy at all but for some reason she started to yell at me that I should have reacted differently and how can I let him do that. She even said “did you like it or what?” and I didn’t like that comment at all.

I told her that he’s completely drunk so it’s no big deal and if there’s someone she should be mad at it’s not me. I left not long after that.

I don’t think I reacted badly but idk AITA here ?