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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/DigSuspicious813 on 2023-08-05 22:39:22.

My (24F) boyfriend (27M) and I were invited to one of our friend’s birthday party yesterday.

I had work early today so we agreed on leaving early. Also, my boyfriend broke his foot so I was in charge of driving.

Around 11pm, I start to feel tired so I told my boyfriend we were gonna go soon. He said yes, let me just finish my conversation, I said Ok.

After 5 minutes of waiting, I tell him again that I was tired so we needed to leave. He told me to wait 5 more minutes.

But those 5 minutes quickly turned into 10, those 10 into 20 and 20 into 30 minutes.

At this point,I was getting angry because he already promised me we’d leave early but it was now close to midnight and he was still talking.

I go to him again and tell him that if he’s having fun and wants to stay then I can ask his sister to drive him home as it’s on her way. He said no and that he was coming. I told him that i was really tired and would leave without him if he wasn’t there in 5 minutes. He said he’d be there.

It’s without surprise that after 5 minutes, he was still not here but was having another conversation with someone else.

I go to him one last time and tell him I’m leaving, I guess he didn’t heard because he didn’t react.

Before leaving, I go to his sister and ask if she can drives him home, she said she would so I thanked her and I left.

My boyfriend called me 10 minutes after to ask where I was. I told him I left because I was tired and he wouldn’t leave. He called me an AH and hung up.

He texted me right after and told me that I was an ah for leaving without him, that he was just talking with his friends and that it wouldn’t have killed me to wait a little more. He blocked me right after that and slept at his sister’s house.

I texted her and she told me he just need time to cool down and that me leaving without him had really hurt him.

No news since, from him or his sister.

Was I the AH to leave without him ? Perhaps it’s true that I could’ve waited till he finished talking.