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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/rip_my_handle on 2023-08-05 23:39:06.

I just had his baby a week and a half ago, so I could just be hormonal and have a wrecked self-esteem.

But I’ve confronted him about this before and he just gets angry. I asked him why he follows SO many models and pornstars, some of which are local, on Instagram. He jerks off a lot even tho I try to keep him satisfied as much as I can. About six months ago, I told him it makes me feel really gross and insecure that he interacts with these girls, commenting on pics, liking them, asking them to DM him, etc. One time, I saw a recording of him paying to play with a cam girl and saying things to her like “come to my city,” “I’ll fly you out,” “I wanna fuck you so bad.” We broke up and got back together shortly after. He deleted his Insta even though I didn’t ask him to.

Fast forward to today and he’s had his Insta back for about a month or so. I see he’s interacting with pornstars again and commenting under their pics. I feel stuck because I don’t know if I should bring it up now that I have his child. I don’t want him to leave me or just do it behind my back in a sneakier fashion. I felt pretty shitty before I was pregnant but now I feel worse considering how wrecked my body is.

Should I confront him about this again or am I being too hard on him? I’ve been crying and incredibly distant all day.