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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Key_Income206 on 2023-08-06 14:04:24.

my fiance and I are planning our wedding and we are having a disagreement.

I want my niece(f17) to be my MOH and my fiance wants me to choose someone else

my niece is very dear to me. her mom left her when she was only 9 and I sort of became her nanny. I’ve been helping my brother raise her and she is like a daughter to me. I’m infertile so she will be my only child.

my fiance however doesn’t like her and is insisting that she shouldn’t be a part of our wedding even though he knows how important she is to me. I finally snapped and told him that he needs to accept my niece and learn to get along with her and that I get to choose MY MOH. he thinks I’m an asshole