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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/ModeAsleep7066 on 2023-08-06 20:43:57.

My sister and I have always been close, we did everything together she was literally my best friend I’m married and have three kids, whiles my sister is married and has just one child, around 2020 my sister got an opportunity to go work in canada, I was so happy for her but she had a son( who was one year old at the time) and he did not have a passport nor visa so she asked if he could live with me, I said okay because I assumed it wouldn’t be for that long, a year or less I could deal with but he’s my nephew so I didn’t really mind, about two-three years go by he’s still living with us, my sister never made effort to come see him or any plans to come take her child with her, when my children go on school break, my kids travel to their dad( he travels a lot cause of his job) so I would leave my sisters son with my mother, because yet again he doesn’t have a passport, my sister never made effort to do one for him, early this year around April we unfortunately lost my mother, my sister called to check up on us and all. I and my children were set to move to America right after my second oldest finishes his IGCSEs and when the last born goes on school break, so during the summer around august, my sister was aware of this from the start of January Last month july my kids went for a short summer break to the Philippines where their dad is and I stayed home with my sister child because there was no one to look after him, during those weeks I told my sister in a few weeks we would be moving, she said okay, then somewhere last week, she was supposed to come pick up her child, I called and texted a bunch of times but it seemed she had blocked me everywhere, I was fed up so I contacted her husband ( he’s not really in the picture) and explained everything to him and he decided to take his child and I was so thankful, the day I was meant to leave, my sister called and started shouting her lungs off about how selfish, wicked and ungrateful I am, and insulting me about how I could do this to her, and how rude it was for me to give her son to her husband giving the situation they are in, I just turned off my phone, took my kids and went to the airport but I’ve been feeling so guilty maybe I shouldn’t have done what I did Aita??