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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Odd_Bite1326 on 2023-08-07 01:59:25.

I 38(f) have a 15, 12 , 9 and 6 year old daughters me and their father got a divorce when my youngest was just 2 years old . My ex husband had an affair with my sister 35 (f) . My ex husband and my sister had been sneaking behind my back and I had found out when I came home early from my shift . They gave me every excuse in the books , I had waited it out for the sake of my kids to see if my ex husband would stop . 6 months later the affair was still going so I served my ex with divorce papers . But here’s the real thing my sister aka my daughters stepmom had been telling my daughters how I was the one who broke up the marriage . I found this out when my 6 y/o daughter came up to me crying asking why I broke her family up . I was so confused so I asked her more questions she told me how my sister had been saying I cheated on their father and more bs. I had called the rest of my daughters down stairs and asked them to tell me what their stepmom had been saying they proceeded to tell me everything . So I had told my daughters the truth I could tell they didn’t believe me at first until I told them to ask their grandparents and father what had really happened . My daughters had went back to their fathers house this past weekend , when I had got a call from him calling me all types of names in the book and him asking if I wanted to ruin him and our daughters relationship he hung and no less then 10 minutes later my phone was being blown up calling me all the names in the book and saying how I’m “ a shitty mother” . So AITA?

I just noticed the error in the title ** THEIR