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The original was posted on /r/truscum by /u/Standard-Section513 on 2024-11-11 13:19:52+00:00.

I got dumped by my first ever crush, and girlfriend around half a year ago. Just straight up ghosting, not much explanation other than “not ready for a relationship”

She was bisexual, and while trying to get over her I realized there’s not that many queer people at all. I’ve met maybe one or two in my country. Let alone trans people. Obviously no man would be attracted to me, but I’ve noticed no women would even consider me an option when it comes to dating. (I’m pre t, but mostly passing, so I’m not sure what this means)

So it’s left me feeling pretty unlovable, at first I thought only bisexuals would ever be attracted to me, and if that’s true then that means a pretty tiny percent of the population would even be capable of being attracted to me.

In the usual trans sub reddits I’d get the “love yourself, romance isn’t gender or sexuality” or whatever. And most of that advice would probably be given by people younger than me on average.

I need some proper advice. Have any of you guys ever dated a straight woman (or man) that genuinely loved you for who you were? Because to me it sounds impossible right now.