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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Negative-Complex7443 on 2023-08-09 19:02:14.

My son Logan is about to start his senior year and wanted to throw a summer party with his friends. Logan wanted to use his house for the party but his dad/my ex is on a Disney Cruise with our two younger sons and is impossible to reach. Logan said he wants to do right by his dad by asking permission.

I said he won’t mind as long as you don’t destroy his house. I woke up this morning with rage text messages from my ex asking me why I gave Logan permission to throw a house party and how I don’t live there. I said I didn’t give him permission and you weren’t available to give permission so I told Logan to use his best judgment. Your house did not burn down. Start trusting your son and his decisions.

He said he watched them on the security camera and they were drinking and smoking. I told him so what? You did worse at 17. Now he’s threatening to sue me to pay to deep clean his house when you can’t tell anything happened.

Edit: Their party wasn’t anything different than something you’d see on Saved by the Bell