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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/No-Development4151 on 2023-08-10 00:15:10.

My Wife (28F) and I (34M) have been married for 3 years. I love her to death and she is the best thing in my life. However, she wants to get a tattoo. She already has 4 (Hip, Bicep, Shoulder, Sideboob) and I have no problem with them. I have 2 myself. This proposed tattoo though is causing problems.

She wants to get a fairly large floral design with a hummingbird on her chest. It would be from just under her collarbone and down to between her boobs. It would be visible in nearly every shirt she’d wear. I’m begging her to reconsider where it goes. I don’t like the location of where she wants to get it.

This has caused a few arguments with her calling me an asshole and mostly cites it is her body and I shouldn’t be controlling her. I don’t have an issue with the tattoo itself, I have an issue with where she wants it. So AITA?