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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Lady_Gaither on 2023-08-10 05:04:56.

I 38 F have been married to my husband 41 M for 10 years. We have been together for 12. He told me today when he got home from work at 8pm that he passed out at work. He told me the medics were called and now he has to go to the doctor to get blood work done. He did not call me and asked his co workers not to call me because he didn’t want me to worry. It really hurt my feelings. This comes after an accident that happened just after we started dating. He was involved in a serious explosion that caused 1st and 2nd degree burns on the right side of his face and arm. He didn’t call me until her was getting discharged from the hospital as I was not listed as an emergency contact yet. I explained to him after that accident that I would have like to been there for support, to talk to doctors, to ask questions, to learn aftercare and anything else that was important information. Well after he told me about todays incident, he began asking what I think it could have been, what it could be, what the Dr might say, and so on. I told him if you didn’t t care enough to let me know something was wrong when it was wrong…I don’t care enough to care now. Am I the asshole?

Edit to add: After reading comments I must add - He called his best friend while being assessed by medics. His co workers wanted to call me but he said no.