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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Hot_mess87 on 2023-08-10 17:52:01.

Both me and her (36yo f) Been friends since 1st grade, so 30 years… We both have no other close friends, just me and her, I had her back emotionally and financially all the time…

She has no work so I offered to pay for her tiara, wedding shoes, and for a proffissional hair and make up and asked her to consider them as a wedding gift, she said yes and I did bought them, got them delivered to her house, also booked the hair and makeup appointment and paid already… my mom is a famous tailor here in my home town so also offered to do her wedding dress for free, and did already… my friend came by to get her dress and the rest of items that I got her, she failed to invite me or my mom to the wedding.

stopped communicating with me till the wedding day where she texted me saying that the food is not enough and the groom is paying for everything so she can’t invite me (keep in mind that the norm here in my country is for the bride’s family to pay for the engagement party, and the groom’s family to pay for the wedding party… so whowever you want there will be there no matter who is paying)…

I got furious and texted her that she took advantage of me and my mother and that ourfriendship is done as far as I’m concerned… She started posting on FB about toxic, jealous friends reffering to me with a special nickname, which everyone knows it… so I stopped replying to her calls or msgs…

Some people told me that I am overreacting over a wedding, and I am afraid to be this person… so AITA here?