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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/VeterinarianOdd2007 on 2023-08-11 08:53:40.


My fiancé (31M) and I (30f) have a pretty good relationship all expect for the fact he keeps eating my food because I don’t eat it fast enough. I’m a very small woman only 4’11 and I’ve always struggled with Ed mostly binging. For once in my life I’m listening to my hunger cues and I only eat when I’m actually hungry and stop when I’m not. This has led to me eating 1-2 times a day. And sometimes I don’t finish it all because I’m full. I always save it for later if I feel hungry I’ll eat it. I went to the doctors who stated that’s perfectly fine.

I’m also a pescatarian but I mostly eat non meat products. Beyond, gardien, morning star, impossible, etc. I also don’t drink normal milk because it makes me sick so I drink almond milk. My fiancé is not he eats meat, drink normal milk, and eats 3 times a day. So we often buy different items to suit our needs. However he always manages to eat my stuff. I brought specialized noodles from Korea, he ate them. I leave my left overs in the fridge he eats them. I make enough for today and tomorrow he’ll eat my portion and his because I didn’t eat mine within a day. He will eat my special vegan and vegetarian food even though he has his own meat products.

I talk to him about him, I said I’m fine with sharing but please ask. And to not be selfish by eating the last of something that’s mine. He apologized and did as I asked. It lasted about 2-3week. Well today I guess he decided to stop. I didn’t wanna cook so I made myself an egg sandwich with fries (air fryer). That was at around 3pm. I felt hungry at around 9pm so I decided I eat some cereal. Ah yeah, no I wasn’t because he drunk all my almond milk. I said okay I’ll just eat noodles, he ate my noodles and left the empty box. I said okey I’ll make a parfait I have those light and fit yogurts that taste like desert and some granola. Well he ate my yogurts and all the granola. He was sleeping I admit I was angry so I woke him up and yell to stop eating my shit. I feel bad, and like I’m an ass for yelling at him. But I feel like the little time I do eat I don’t have a selection because he eats everything.

AITA?