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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/NioRoka on 2023-08-11 11:11:23.

I (F24) was recently talking to my younger sister (F22) and she mentioned she had an upcoming date with a 36 year old man. I immediately asked her to please cancel the date as in my opinion no guy that age has good intentions with a girl her age, and it’s a huge red flag.

She brought up our mother who’s in her late 60s going on a date with a guy in his 80s to which I responded that it was completely different as they are fully formed, fully matured adults who likely have similar life goals.

She then said I was being a hypocrite, that she was more mature than most girls her age, called me a judgemental asshole and stormed off.

This isn’t the first time we’ve had an argument about this kind of thing, the last time was about her ex who she started dating when she was 15/16 and he was 18/19 (can’t recall the exact ages). Both times she’s called me a judgemental asshole.

I say what I say out of concern, as I genuinely just don’t trust the kinds of guys she tends to go for, but am I overstepping when I call this sort of thing out?