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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/Even-Imagination8832 on 2023-08-11 16:32:02.

My boyfriend is great in bed, however sometimes I want some me time. Usually if he works late/ is travelling for work.

I’ve owned sex toys before, and got rid of them but I am now considering getting myself a new one. Just because I can.

My boyfriend would not be happy if I brought one for myself, he is of the mind that I don’t necessarily need them and that I am preferring a toy over him. He is also very reluctant to use a toy during sex as it feels like I’m saying he is not good enough.

Is buying myself a toy without telling him stepping over some boundary?