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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/rubbishfairy on 2023-08-11 16:14:44.

We are a long time het couple. We have a good sex life but my girlfriend is very much NOT the stereotypical woman in bed. She doesn’t have very much patience. If I come on to her things go as you would expect, but she has a high sex drive and more often than not she comes on to me during the evening. She mostly goes straight for my cock with her hands and as soon as I’m aroused typically rides me till she comes a couple of times. After that she goes straight to sleep. It probably sounds better than it is. The reality is that it’s all very predictable.

Quite often she comes onto me in this way and I don’t get hard. She somehow then makes it feel like it’s my fault. I’ve tried telling her that I need more than that, I need a bit of seduction and creativity, but she just doesn’t seem to get it. We live in a society where men are generally supposed to be ready to go at any moment … how can I convince her that she needs to put in a bit more effort?