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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Able-Sea-3255 on 2023-08-11 15:14:19.
I work a night shift at a warehouse and I offered one of the clerks a ride when I saw her walking on my way home. I offered a lift and said “Hey you need a ride?” And she said “yeah that would be great”. When she got in my car, I asked “where do you live?”. She seemed uncomfortable and just said “east”. I said “You want me to drop you off at a bus stop that is the last line you usually take?”, sensing that she seemed uncomfortable. She said “yeah”. I said “alright, just tell me the intersection.”. She seemed uncomfortable again and said “I’ll tell you the direction”. She was looking up directions on the phone and was trying to hide the screen from me. She gave me directions and I followed. She was terrible at it, i made multiple U-turns and three point turns. In the middle of the drive she said “you drive too fast, slow down”. I said “sorry but I’m driving the limit, I can’t by law impede traffic”. After 30 minutes she finally said I can drop her off. Checked my odometer, I drove 15 or so miles and spend an additional 10 miles on my way home than usual. The next day she came to me and basically asked for a ride, I said she could come with the other co-workers. Dropped them all off at the main bus line 3 miles out of my way. Last night she came to ask me again, I said “sorry, kinda busy”. In truth, I didn’t give her a ride because I’m not dropping anyone off today and didn’t feel comfortable giving her a ride alone in my car. WITA?
NTA. For whatever reason, she has a lot of anxiety about being alone in a car with you, and is already treating you as a threat.
This means she is a threat to you.
At least for now, you should only travel with this woman in groups.