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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/NoAppearance8153 on 2023-08-11 22:36:31.

I F(26) and my ex M(28) (i’ll call him Harry) met when we were in high school, we met through mutual friends and instantly connected. We started dating not long after i finished high school and everything seemed to be going extremely fast. We moved in together after college and 2 years after moving in i fell pregnant with our daughter. He was automaticall excited to become a father and i was thrilled that we was going to become a little family. That was until during labour i got a call from Harry’s friend telling me that harry was supposed to meet him but didn’t show, i told him i had tried getting in touch with him myself as i was about to give birth we then became worried. After i had given birth, harry’s friend rang me back to tell me harry is at his affair partners house. I was shocked, i hung up and started crying thankfully my mum was with me and calmed me down. Harry tried to explain himself but i didn’t care i immediately packed my bags, took my name off the lease and went to live with my parents. That was 5 years ago and i am now in a much better place physically and mentally. Me and Harry co parent our daughter and he is engaged to the woman he cheated on me with which stung but i got over it. They have 2 kids together but once his fiancé had their second child she found out due to complications within birth she couldn’t have more kids. They were both crushed and i sympathised with them mainly out of trying to keep peace for my daughter. 2 days ago i got sent a message from harry’s fiancé asking me if we could meet at a local cafe, to me this was odd as we never really spoke unless at parties and gatherings for a few minutes but i usually spoke to harry regarding everything else. I replied “sure” and we met yesterday morning, as soon as i walked in it was her and harry sat at a table so i automatically knew something was up. I walked over and sat down and they said “they was just going to come out and say it” Harry spoke up and said “due to us not being able to have another child we was wondering if you would be our surrogate” I was stunned i laughed and said “this is a joke right” to which his fiancé replied “we are dead serious, we want at least 5 babies so we need you to be a surrogate for us for 3 babies” i laughed more and said “YOU you want me to carry 3 babies for you” i literally couldn’t stop laughing at the audacity to ask such a thing from me. His fiancé started crying and called me so many names i genuinely think she was making some up along the way, she stormed out and harry turned to me and said “this is why we didn’t work, you’re a horrible human being you’re so heartless we asked one thing from you and you laugh in our faces” As to which i replied “NO we didn’t work because you’re a cheating scumbag you have 2 kids 3 including our daughter, you want a surrogate then save all the money you spend on your fiancés rich lifestyle and get one” I left the cafe and went to my mums house when i got there i was bombarded with calls and texts from my ex, his fiancé, his mum and dad and sisters, and even his fiancés family. All calling me an ahole my family are on my side but honestly i just want to know if i was abit harsh on them, am i the ahole for just laughing at them?