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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/ImNotPanicing on 2023-08-11 23:15:26.

Last night I went out for drinks with my sister and some people she met at a job training.

We were having a good time but I think two of the guys we were with got a little too tipsy. They both started talking about their shared trauma. They had been cheated on repeatedly. Then began the generalizations “All women are cheaters”. I , having some liquid courage, got irritated and said no.

Shitty people cheat, not all women. They got annoyed saying that’s not what I meant, strong women like you two wouldn’t cheat. I don’t consider myself strong, maybe just having morals or something like that. I said it’s not because I’m “strong” i’m just not a shitty person (I like to think I’m not at least)

I love my boyfriend, I shared multiple stories throughout the evening about him, he would have been there but he had to work.

Later on, one of the two, started talking to me as me as I was leaving. He said “We don’t have to tell your bf about tonight” with a little wink. I stared in utter disbelief like “Dude he knows where I am and who I’m with, I’m not going to do shit with you” and left with my sister.

Like how did he think that was going to work and why would he, if he was sooo traumatized from his cheating ex, try to get someone to cheat on their SO?

I do not understand.