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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/J8gsiw18 on 2023-08-12 01:18:40.

My friend Leigh (28F) caught her husband (30M) in his car, jerking off to my (27F) Instagram pictures.

Obviously I’m icky about it too, but my friend is insisting I talk to her husband and tell him to stop, because I owe her. I don’t think this is my fault, nor is it my problem and told her as much.

She’s now blocked me and bad mouthing me to anyone who will listen. Leigh is saying I led her husband on, coming between their marriage and that I refuse to “fix” the problem.

I posted my side of the mess on my Insta, basically telling everyone who follows me my side of the story to clear the air. She says I’m dramatic and have taken it to a public level it didn’t need to get to.

Most of our mutuals agree I had the right to defend myself, but there are others saying I went too far. I didn’t regret how I felt about it, or what I did, but the people saying I’m the TA for making it public, including a best friend Leigh and I share, are making me wonder if I actually am. So am I?

TLDR; friend’s husband gets off to my pictures. friend wants me to talk to her husband and make him stop. she started spreading gossip about me when I said no, so I cleared my name via insta post.