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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/Temporary-Tiger-9499 on 2023-08-12 05:48:13.

I25f was engaged to my fiancé27m. We were together 2 years, and engaged for 5 months. My ex fiancé has 2 children with his ex, and last week he took his kids out for the day. He ended up sleeping over there, where he didn’t answer his phone for the whole night after 9pm. The next day he texted me and said he was so exhausted he fell asleep on their couch. I was at our apartment, waiting and worrying about him. I left him, because I don’t want a marriage with someone who sleeps at his exes house and leaves me hanging for hours.

When my ex fiancé came home, I was packing and told him I was going to stay at my moms and we were done. He was obviously really upset, and my reasoning pissed him off. He said there was nothing unfaithful with what he was doing, and that he was there with his kids and was so exhausted and just watched tv then passed out. He said I was completely over reacting, and I needed to take a breath and stop acting this way. I don’t think I’m overreacting, he went MIA for over 10 hours, and had me at home worrying. AITA?