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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/CandidKey8865 on 2023-08-12 10:56:56.

I 20f have an older sister who we’ll call Chloe 32f. Chloe has 3 kids who I love dearly and treat them as if they were my own. Now my bank account has been hacked and I counted up $3,500 that got stolen (I know that’s not much money to some people, but it’s a lot to me). I have been to the bank twice and both times they have tracked the money down and told me all my money has gone to Chloe’s bank and she’s spent it all. I asked Chloe about it and both times she’s denied it. She does have a previous history of drug abuse which might be relevant to add. She’s engaged to a new bloke she’s only known for 3 months who’s got and AVO against him from his ex and a history of domestic violence which I think is a red flag. Within the first month of my sister and the guy who I’ll call Cody being together he made my sister and kids pack up everything and move to Sydney and left a cat and horses to fend for themselves (they’re safe now tho), he’s all round controlling and bad news all and all I don’t want him around my niece and nephews. I work really hard for my money, I travel around Australia and work on sheep and cattle stations all round tough labour that has taught me to earn my pay. I wouldn’t care if Chloe asked me to borrow money from me, but the fact that’s she’s stolen from me her own sister? Regrettably I went to the police to file a report. I didn’t want to as I know I’m never going to be able to see her kids again. I showed the cop all the evidence I have, wrote out a statement. He told me he’s going to have her charged with fraud. My Mum, my other siblings and partner have told me I’m making the right choice. But I don’t want to miss out on my niece and nephews growing up. So am I TA?