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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Leather_Promotion646 on 2023-08-12 08:20:23.

My oldest daughter Ami was a total bridezilla 7 years ago when she got married. She left out her awkward autistic sister Nia out from everything. She wasn’t a bridesmaid and insisted it was her day. Since then Nia went to art school and explored the world of fine arts. She met a great mam who treated her like a princess. He never said he was from a wealthy family but his manners and lifestyle gave hints. Nia would randomly say she’s going to Paris with him. As a mom I worried about her traveling internationally but Ami would always tease her sister because she doesn’t drink and isn’t chic, posh or bougie. Slowly Ami and her husband got into to some financial trouble in 2020 and had to majorly downsize their life while Nia seems to thrive. The wedding announcement arrived and Nia will be celebrating her marriage in Morocco with her husband family they are gracefully paying the way for my husband and I to attend. Ami complained that that’s not fair and she would love to go and we will all be lost without her knowledge of etiquette. (She’s never been to Morocco or Paris) I reminded her how she treated her then teenage sister at her wedding and excluded her from from being a bridesmaid. She insisted that her sister was to awkward ard to be a bridesmaid back then. She would have embarrassed her. I told her what goes around comes around and maybe this is your lesson to treat people better. Ami started crying about how it’s not fair. I told her life isn’t fair. My husband thinks I should be gentle with her because she’s going through a very rough time financially and said I was taking pleasure in throwing karma in her face.