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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/R3d_Rav3n on 2023-08-12 15:04:05.

I (31F) do my partner’s (33M) laundry. For context, I make 70K a year to his ~100k so I pay $800 of the $2k monthly rent and do his laundry. So far this arrangement has worked for us (I’m the one who proposed it). I enjoy doing laundry and he has never forced me to. The issue is that he has 1 pair of work pants and 1 work shirt he currently fits into. He’s recently gained a bunch of weight- which I don’t care about, but now he only has the one work outfit he can wear. It’s summer here and I don’t want to do laundry every day. So AITA for telling him he needs to buy more work clothes? He keeps telling me he will lose weight so he can fit into the other pants and shirts he has, but it’s been a few months and no sign of that happening and he gets immediately defensive if I press the issue. Please know, I really don’t want this to be about weight gain, I just don’t want to be doing laundry every day because he refuses to buy a few more shirts and pairs of pants.