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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/Chigs1186 on 2023-08-12 18:53:35.

MyWife’s step dad passed last week after a 4 yr battle with cancer. On his day of passing everyone gathered at her moms house to say last good guys and be together as a family. While there I went into the Pantry and saw a bottle of Vodka, I had mentioned that this is a hell of a day for a drink and I was going to take one. About an hour later my wife approaches me and told me that her mom was upset that I did so and had said “hasn’t he had enough to drink already?” I was sober and have never had an incident with her family around drinking. My wife and I got into a small argument about it and her sister overheard. In the days since both her sister and Mom have told her she should consider leaving me. Now the day of the Funeral my wife tells me he mom told her to not have me come if I’m drinking. I feel like that also means they don’t want me there at all and if I were to go it could be a distraction of has he been drinking. Also this comment honestly hurts my feelings and I feel likes it out of nowhere. Taking a shot on the day of death was maybe a not the best idea. But at this point I don’t feel like they want me there. IDK what to do.

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