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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Soft_Confection_4582 on 2023-08-21 17:50:45.

My brother and soon to be SIL are getting married soon and since my SIL and I are very good friends she chose me as her MOH. My SIL wants to have 7 bridesmaids and she chose 6 people that are close to her but couldn’t find the 7th one so she asked for ny opinion oh who it should be. She was considering my daughter(17) and niece(16) since my brother is close to both girls and loves them very much so she wanted to include one of them.

I suggested she should ask my niece for several reasons such as:

My niece is younger and always wanted to be a bridesmaid and never had the chance

My daughter is not the girly type and wouldn’t really enjoy it while my niece is extremely girly and loves these things

My niece is extremely beautiful(the supermodel kind of beauty) and would look good in the photos

My daughter however called me an asshole when she found out and now she is refusing to attend the wedding