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The original was posted on /r/bicycletouring by /u/Strong-Dependent-905 on 2025-02-19 12:21:49+00:00.

This might be a different topic than usual, but I’d love to hear your thoughts on life, purpose, logistics, and mindset. I’m at a crossroads and would appreciate advice from those who’ve been there.

After two years of working random jobs in Australia and backpacking through Asia and many other trips on this beautiful planet before that, I’m back home in cold northern Europe, adjusting to society again—sorting out taxes, getting a car, and reconnecting with my old employer. But I feel disconnected, like life is passing too quickly. I’ve always dreamed of cycling to Asia with my best mate, and after years of preparation, I have the funds to make it happen. However, I’m torn.

At nearly 30, I feel the pressure to have my life together. I don’t want to rely on my parents, and my previous jobs, though practical, weren’t fulfilling. My passion lies in adventure, exploring this beautiful planet, and experiencing new things, meeting people before we are too old or unfortunate to experience these things. Yet, I’ve also felt lonely on the road and miss having a community or friends & family at times.

My plan was to reach Vietnam and teach English for a while, but I struggle with the balance between freedom and stability. Constant travel keeps you focused on survival—transport, food, shelter—making it hard to progress in other areas. I don’t want to be a “homeless adventurer,”… yet a part of me would like nothing better? The uncertainty excites me, but I fear the post-travel slump I just experienced and dont really have a set future plan since i hate to commit to things since i enjoy the freedom of choice too much!

There’s no one right answer, but I’d love to hear from experienced bicycle tourers—how did you navigate these choices? Any insights would mean a lot!🙌❤