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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/smol_piggie on 2023-08-23 11:31:08.

A couple of weekends ago my drink got spiked when I(20F) was clubbing. I don’t know what happened but my friend told me I called her from the bathroom telling her I felt weird and going in and out of consciousness and vomiting. I won’t go into too much detail but she came and got me but I was completely unconscious at that point.

I woke up at her house and she told me what happened. After dropping me home she ignored me for the whole week.

I called and texted her several times, at first asking her for more details on what happened that night, and then asking if she was ok and asking why she wasn’t responding. The calls were mostly when I was feeling anxious and needing her to talk me down.

She called me the following weekend telling me she was “annoyed at me for no logical reason” and I just didn’t know how to respond.

I spoke to her later that night saying how hurt I was because I really needed her in that time and she told me she was overwhelmed and didn’t have the energy to speak to anyone (whilst hanging out with other people).

She then told me that I was invalidating her feelings and told me that I survived a week without her company.

I think I might be the asshole because maybe she needed space after that night and I wasn’t thinking about how she felt about it.